Love As a Joyful Experience of Letting Go

A leaf that is bent in the middle of the sky.

On this Ash Wednesday, which falls on Valentine’s Day, a reflection on love seems fitting. Love is a universal emotion, quality, and virtue deeply embedded in our hearts and lives, and its broad definition is commonly understood. Yet, let’s delve deeper into one of its aspects we seldom consider–love as a joyful experience of letting…

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The Hoarding Epidemic: More than What Meets the Eye

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Picture the jumbled mountains of knickknacks and clutter on the hit TV series Hoarders. It’s easy to dismiss such extreme cases as rarities, anomalies beyond “my” reality. “I can’t be that person or those people,” we might be quick to declare. Yet, beneath this spectacle lies an uncomfortable truth: a reflection of our broader cultural…

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Cover-up: A Discussion on the Impact of Distraction on a Leader

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David’s story in the Bible serves as an ideal case study for understanding human nature and the reality of cover-up. It exemplifies the best within each of us and our internal demons. In previous works, I reflected on some of David’s remarkable virtues–faithfulness, service, hard work, discipline, gratitude, and various leadership qualities. David’s attributes inspire…

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Shine

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Embrace the call to shine your light boldly for the service of others. Learn about the balance between humility and visibility, and how generosity with your talents can attract blessings and growth. During my early days of ministry in the United States, a pastor who invited me to lead a retreat for his parish shared…

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Your Worth, My Worth: A Reflection on Character

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What makes us valuable? Is it our looks, our professional accomplishments, or our material possessions? While these things might make us feel good about ourselves, they don’t define our true worth. Imagine a shiny toy that looks impressive on the outside, but when you pick it up, it’s hollow and empty inside. Our worth isn’t…

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Faith Over Struggles

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Faith helps us navigate the struggles, the fatigue, and the noon-day experiences of our lives. Ugochukwu was the loveliest child in my family and my youngest brother. I loved him so much. Shortly after my ordination, he passed at 14. It was the most trying experience for my family. Meanwhile, my mom was in a…

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Salt and light: a call to witnessing

A cross on top of a snow covered hill.

The Blessed Lord uses two metaphors to speak to the witnessing life of his disciples in the Gospel of Matthew 5: 13-16. They are the famous lines–”you are the salt of the earth” and “you are the light of the world.” This reflection sheds light on these two metaphors and what they mean for the…

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