​Confidence Builder

Grace to you!

A friend got a ticket for crossing double lines on a highway. You know that feeling of “Oops! The cops! Please have mercy…” 

His violation was way beyond the officer’s leniency. He knew the ticket was coming. Surely it did. 

By the time the bill came, at least $500 of hard-earned money was gone. He chose to go to driving school to avoid the documentation of this violation in his driving history. Smart. The lesson he learned at the school is my inspiration for telling this story. 

After going to driving school, he shared how grateful he was for the driving violation ticket. 
“How do you mean?” I asked. 

“I didn’t know that I didn’t know many rules about driving these days,” he replied. 

It’s been long since he went to driving school and seemed unsure of specific traffic rules. This was dangerous for him and other commuters, for that matter. 

“After attending the driving school,” he continued, “I have become absolutely confident about myself at the wheel. Sighting cops, going through unmarked roads, I know what the rules are. The knowledge of the rules has made me freer and increased my confidence level at the wheel,” he concluded. 

Ironical. Isn’t it?

Confidence grows by knowledge. If you know what you should know, you are freer to follow the paths you know you should—making better choices become easier. Being more informed is a plus. Self-confident people are self-aware; their confidence grows with knowledge and experience. 

The concept of the law can be threatening to many people. As Saint Paul said, we know that merely following the law doesn’t justify believers (Romans 3:20). He would also say that “the knowledge of the law is death.” Meaning that there wouldn’t be the knowledge of its violation—sin—if there were no law. And the just God wouldn’t punish either. But this is too simplistic an interpretation of the Bible. 

A more Christ-like attitude is one based on the positive spirit for which the law has been given. It isn’t a testament of death, but of love and life—to show us the way to live. When a scholar of the Law asked The Blessed Lord Jesus what he must do to gain eternal life, did Jesus not summarize it in two positive responses, based on the law, namely love of God and love of neighbor? (See Luke 10:25-37) 

The Blessed Lord even showed him that the love of neighbor isn’t simply regarding a fellow brother from the same family, race, or clan, or a member of our class, but anyone who is a human being. God’s Law makes us free for love. Remember that beautiful biblical passage: “They shall know the truth and the truth shall make them free” (John 8:32). 

Knowing what God expects from us is a confidence builder. This is not only in the moral sense but also in spiritual discernment. I have often listened to the agonies of people who wonder—I am not sure what God wants me to do now? Such a feeling could be frustrating. 

But for those who know the will of God, the law of God, and are so familiar with how God relates to them; their faith is a different story. Their spiritual life is admirable. It’s like a house built on a solid foundation. 

I pray you to know the law of God and the will of God, so much so that you are confident about what God expects of you. Thus, through the power of God’s grace and the Spirit, you live freely with what you know. Amen. 

Be a confident believer. Know your faith and live it with confidence and joy. 

God love you. God bless you.

Fr. Maurice Emelu 

[Monday of the Twenty-seventh Week in Ordinary Time: Galatians 1:6-12; Luke 10:25-37]

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Fr. Maurice Emelu

The Reverend Dr. Maurice Emelu is the Chair of a number of non-profit boards and a professor of digital media and communication at John Carroll University, United States. His research and practices focus on digital storytelling and design, media aesthetics and theo-aesthetics. Dr. Emelu lives where digital media technology meets culture, communication, philosophy, theology and society. He is the founder of Gratia Vobis Ministries, Inc. To know more about his professional background, visit mauriceemelu.com

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